Atheist vs. ChristianI’m sitting in my living room right now watching a Nightline episode in which two atheists and two Christians (one of which is Kirk Cameron) debate the existence of God. And I have to admit…I’m kind of embarrassed.

It’s not the worst display of bad evangelism I’ve ever seen, but these debates just seem so pointless and counterproductive. At one point, Kirk Cameron pulled out some pictures of mock evolutionary missing links; animals like the “crocoduck” (half crocodile, half duck), the “bullfrog” (half frog, half bull), and the “sheepdog” (half sheep, half dog). And as he showed these, the atheists merely rolled their eyes.

An argument like that isn’t evangelism, it’s belittlement. It’s making fun of the other’s beliefs. And that tact just doesn’t work.

In the end, none of the atheists became Christians and none of the Christians became atheists. The only thing that happened was that they all got annoyed at each other.

When I think about evangelism in the Bible, I can’t think of any examples in which Jesus or Paul or any of the apostles tried to belittle someone into believing the gospel. Instead, Jesus simply welcomed and loved those who were “sinners”–and they loved him right back. Paul said to his audience things like, “I see that you are very religious”–he treated them with respect. And Philip simply asked, “Do you understand what you are reading?”–he didn’t say, “I can’t believe you don’t get this!”

I wonder when we’re finally going to start taking Peter’s words seriously, and actually treat people with “gentleness and respect” as we dialogue with them about life, the world, their pain…and about Jesus.